LONG-DISTANCE GRANDPARENT CHALLENGES
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CONNECTING. long-distance grandparents with grandchildren
Several challenges grandparents face in connecting with grandchildren include: job-related travel, families that move to different areas of the country, divorces and separations, as well the fact that everyone is extremely busy. In today’s hectic world, it’s difficult to maintain a close connection and bond with young grandchildren you don’t often see.
Connecting means bonding! It’s a challenging task, as young kids are so active, it’s hard to find something you can do together that’s memorable, even when you are with them. To establish a connection, first you need to interact in meaningful experiences together. This is important! If two individuals (an adult and a child, or two adults even) don’t experience meaningful activity together, it’s difficult to connect on a personal level.
As mentioned earlier, many grandparents are not part of their grandchildren’s daily lives. Additionally, when distance and time separates everyone, it becomes more difficult to first build, and then maintain a connection. If you can connect from common experiences you interacted in together, it’s much easier to establish a bond that lasts a long time!
Many grandparents have participated in everyday activities with grandchildren such as going to the grocery store, making breakfast together, blowing bubbles, or visiting the zoo. Once these activities are over and grandma or grandpa leave, young children will quickly move on to the next thing, and forget about special times they’ve experienced with you. How is it possible to re-live fun activities and help kids remember who they experienced them with?
That’s the reason STICKING WITH FAMILY® books were created. When you’re a long-distance grandparent and your visit ends, how can you get a young grandchild to remember you and the special activities you’ve experienced together? Do you buy a coffee mug with a picture on it, or a tee-shirt that says…” I LOVE GRANDMA”? Or, maybe purchase a new teddy bear to give them before you leave? How about a story book that has their name printed in it?
We don’t believe any of these gifts create closeness, as there’s nothing that connects an experience with the people who participated in the activity (grandparent + grandchild). However, three key factors can greatly enhance the ability to connect:
- Recall special activities you’ve experienced together
- Provide a means to identify participants in those activities (photo stickers)
- Allow the participants to interactively build a unique story about their adventures
When children “stick” photo stickers in a book of someone’s face they recognize that re-tells stories of fun times spent together, a close bond is created. It’s an interactive experience that connects two people! Young kids don’t recognize words printed in a book, but they will readily remember fun times with face stickers and illustrated stories about themselves and their grandma or grandpa.
The focus of our books is to have the adult read (and embellish on) each story page. Then, your grandchild “sticks” photo stickers on each page to complete the stories. This way the two of you develop your own special narrative about time spent together, and create a special book about your adventures. When your visit ends, your grandchild has a book that’s filled with photo stickers and activities you experienced together.
Long-distance grandparents will find these books create a bond and a connection that’s difficult to break, even when the participants don’t see each other every day. Grandkids can have the book read to them over-and-over again and they will always remember their grandparents and fun things they did together! This makes these books a great gift that will create long-lasting memories and be meaningful for a long time!
Happy grandparenting!